Being single during the holiday season can be a serious struggle. As soon as December hits your Instagram feed becomes inundated with happy couples posing in front of the Rockefeller tree, ice skating hand-in-hand and kissing beneath the mistletoe, while you’re sitting at home in sweatpants watching sappy holiday movies all by yourself. Don’t even get me started on all of those awkward, “Why are you still single?” questions your judgemental relatives always ask during Christmas dinner, either.

If finding love is the number one thing on your Christmas list this year, you don’t need to mail a letter to Santa or pray for a Christmas miracle.

If finding love is the number one thing on your Christmas list this year, you don’t need to mail a letter to Santa or pray for a Christmas miracle. You simply need to take control of your dating life with a little help from The Inner Circle. You know, that exclusive dating app that aims to help young urban professionals make meaningful, long-term connections.

In addition to helping you find love at first swipe, The Inner Circle is also bringing dating back to the real world by kicking off the holiday season with an Ugly Christmas Sweater party on November 28th.

During this exclusive, members-only event, they’ll be serving delicious bites and desserts that you can nibble on while you look through the crowd for a sweater-clad snack. Plus, there’s also going to be sweet gingerbread champagne and a cozy fireplace to set the mood. As well as ice-breaking games to save you from the embarrassment of using awkward holiday-themed pickup lines to strike up conversations.